Nicest Thing to me.

Came across this particular story on Reddit couple days ago. I still have it open on my browser tab to remind myself who and what we are.

You don't need a lot of money to be happy. You need a big heart and be happy, content with yourself.

Sometime in 2011, one evening, we decided to go to the mall. After a while, our daughter is hungry. The poor girl wants food, and she wants it now.

With our daughter on my arm, I order some chinese and then go up to the register to pay. I hand them my card but it's not working. The card won't go through. I told them I am really sorry, but I don't have any other card on me. I can't take the food. As I proceed to leave, my daughter starts jumping on my arm. She wants food. She's hungry. Seeing that, the Mexican lady on the counter just hands me the tray and tells me not to worry. I keep insisting that's not necessary. But she won't budge.

I come back with the tray on the table. Tell my wife the whole thing. My wife reminds me about my card being expired and the new card in my wallet. I go back to pay for it, but now she won't take the money.

To this day I am greatful for what she did. We will never forget her kindness. And whenever we eat out, we always try our best to pay back the service the cook, server and everyone in between provides us.Whenever we go out to eat, both me and my wife always pile up all the plates, silverware in one place to make the server's life easy. Most of 'em always appreciates the gesture.

Stealing Curry


Last night, I kept waking up on & off. Finally I just got up, walked over to the kitchen, open the fridge and helped myself with my wifes’ amazing beef curry. Beef curry and loaf of breads are my favorite. It was hot, spicy but awesome.

I guess that was the underlying reason for me to not eat a heavy dinner. I kept asking her if the curry was done while having dinner. She was so tired she didn’t get the hint. Finally I gave up. And she thought I didn’t like the ‘Khichuri’ she made. Ooh, can you imagine her hot beef with the khichuri.

Sorta glad, I didn’t have it. For sure I would over indulged with absolutely no regret.

After coming back to bed though, weird how thoughts can enlighten us even in the middle of the night, all of a sudden I had an epiphany. And it was about stealing.

You see, what I did last night can be framed more or less a manner of stealing food while everyone is sleeping. But here at least I don’t have to worry about my hand being chopped off. Even though it may truly suck for the victim, but for the thief it is a mean to survive. The act of stealing is a way for society to balance itself, ensure survival.

Just to be clear, at the moment I can think of three kinds of thief.

1.       Habitual,
2.       Greedy, and
3.       Desperate.

And here I am referring to the desperate kind.  A person who doesn’t have a job, haven’t been able to find one for some time. If such a person gets caught rather than cutting off their hand, we should save his/her dignity and try to help the person anyway we can.

In conclusion, here is something that has been discovered recently.

The Religious Dogma

It amazes me to meet people, to find people who believes it is upto the government to find & prosecute people who blogs against religion. In a democratic society, the government and religion are separate. That means, I as an atheist have the same right to express myself as a religious person does.

It is also sick to see the same people making the injuction, being gay is more of a state of mind and the possibility of finding a cure for it.